One evening, Aakaar received a distressing call from a man named Mr. Dinesh, a teacher from Mumbai. The names and places have been altered to ensure confidentiality.
The Desperation in His Voice
Mr. Dinesh began the conversation with a palpable sense of frustration and urgency. He had heard of the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) and the notorious delays associated with the adoption process in India. "I really need a child and I am ready to adopt any child...even from the street...even one abandoned by the parents," he said, his voice filled with desperation.
Sensing his anxiety, the representative from Aakaar tried to calm him down, assuring him that they could provide the right information.
The Apprehensions of the Adoption Process
Mr. Dinesh's apprehensions were not unfounded. Many prospective parents have similar concerns about the duration and complexity of the adoption process. His frustration was evident when he discussed the perceived barriers: "I have heard it takes up to 2 to 3 years and they ask for many complex documents. They want our medical reports, they want us to own a house, they want us to be rich, to pay up to INR 4 lakhs. Can a common middle-class man not adopt a child legally?"
Explaining the Legal Process
The representative explained that going through CARA is the only legal process for adoption in India. Even the richest man in India would have to follow the same procedure. Any adoption, even within a family, must be registered on the CARA website.
Despite this explanation, Mr. Dinesh still sought a shortcut, mentioning a man who offered to get him a child for Rs. 200,000 within a month. The representative warned him against such illegal shortcuts, which could lead to imprisonment for child trafficking.
The Importance of Multiple Checks
The representative further explained the necessity of the rigorous checks: "When we apply for a loan, even a small amount, don't we go through background checks and eligibility? What if someone without a regular income, with financial debts, adopts a baby? What if the adoptive parents have a terminal illness or psychological problems? Who will take care of the child in case of an untoward event?"
Addressing Practical Concerns
Mr. Dinesh also expressed concerns about the online registration process, citing his lack of IT skills. The representative likened it to the passport application process, which also involves online registration and multiple visits. "The natural process of childbirth takes 9 to 12 months, if parents are lucky enough," she pointed out, underscoring that the adoption process is thorough for a reason.
Providing Clarity and Next Steps
By the end of the 20-minute conversation, Mr. Dinesh had a clearer understanding of the adoption process. The representative suggested he visit an adoption agency in his locality and register on the CARINGS portal. She also provided resources like Childline 1098 and the CARA website (http://cara.nic.in) for further assistance.
The Legal Route for Adoption
The adoption process in India is legally rigorous for good reason. If not completed legally, the child could be separated from the adoptive parents, and the parents could face imprisonment for child trafficking. It's essential for prospective parents to understand and navigate this process carefully to ensure the best outcome for themselves and the children they wish to adopt.
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